So you think your spouse might be seeing someone else eh...

If you truly suspect this is going on, you really can't afford to lie back and let it continue even if it might be a lot easier than confronting the situation head on. It is very rare for a marriage to survive either REAL or PERCIEVED infidelity. God Bless the couples who give it a go and make it work. And God Bless those of us who crashed and burned. Before you take any steps to find out the true facts or tell your partner that you think something is going on, make sure you are ready for any outcome.

you absolutely MUST have the first talk with your spouse, give them every chance to come clean, offer immunity, do whatever it takes to convince him that you will work side by side with him to repair the relationship if that is what you decide you want to do, You must do this if you are like me, always needing to know the truth of every situation. After DAY 1, your life is gonna be making some major changes. Your relationship will become strained, to say the least, and before it is over the two of you will very likely be in deep emotional pain. Yes, from that very first confrontation / confession, it is an uphill battle and there will never be a clear winner.

As women, we usually just know when our mate is being gratified elsewhere. I can't tell you how we know, we just do. But knowing something and being able to prove it are two different things. If there is even a chance you could end up in divorce court then you must prepare. You need the proof.

Today, I am going to recommend a program that willl allow you to monitor a PC from the next room, or the next State., this is not keylogger software, this is total access, and that can be very helpful. Using this program, you can turn on the microphone, the camera, you can download files and folders remotely, and you can even run programs located on the distant PC.

This product is called webex pc-now. , and Cisco just purchased this product. It is easy to open an account. To sign up simply go to pcnow.com and enjoy your first month free as you explore its functionality. PC now will not only let you control your pc remotely from another PC but it will also let you control a pc from a PDA type cellular phone.

This is the first tool in your arsenal. So turn on the PC camera, mic and start recording things that happen in your absense. You can set the program to transfer the new audio and video to your space available at the pcnow site, or just delete the files that you do not when you get home..

That should keep you plenty busy for a day or two. Happy Spying.
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